Have you ever wondered how people's characters are combined and what is needed to create a strong union? Astrology has its own view on this matter. With the help of a personal birth chart, which is compiled by a specialist for two different people, one can judge the psychological compatibility of the partners.

Sometimes it happens that a quiet and calm person, being with another person for a long time, becomes hot-tempered and rude. There are many other examples when individuals with pronounced destructive habits change 180 degrees, becoming flexible and affectionate.

The compatibility of the horoscopes of a man and a woman is based on a number of conditions. First of all, the character of the zodiac, the element to which the sign belongs, is analyzed. The partner's card is considered in the same way.

Analysis of cards of people of the same sex will also be quite informative. Have you ever wondered why we choose certain people as friends? For true friendship, which can last for many years, openness and selflessness are very important. It’s safe to say that for many friends, most of their personal planets are in harmonious relationships with each other.

The compatibility horoscope of partners helps to identify the strengths and weaknesses of the union as a whole and of each representative separately. When a specialist analyzes the natal charts, it will become clear whether it is possible to combine these two characters. The map can shed light on the conflict between the parties, because when meeting people, they tend to demonstrate exclusively positive traits of their nature. Astrology will help predict how harmonious the partnership will be.

Of course, one cannot write off the personal volitional qualities that a person develops throughout his life. Let’s say that if a man’s chart contains an indication of polygamy, but from childhood he was encouraged to believe in the inviolability of family ties, then he will not even think about the destruction of the union. Again, the natal chart can be corrected using the chart of a potential partner. There may be too strong connections between people, which can overcome the negative manifestations of an individual nature.

Analysis of horoscope signs for compatibility by year is called synastry. It would be a mistake to believe that this method only works well in marriages. It’s just that couples resort to it most often. However, it is successfully used if you need to find out how compatible people are in friendship or business. With its help, you can better understand how the characters of close relatives are combined, and why there is a problem between parents and children.

We all interact closely with each other, one person has more influence, another less. When the personal planets of two people are weakly aspected, such a union will not last long, even if this idea initially seems absurd. Things are more complicated in synastry, where there is clearly a conflict element. One should not think that tense aspects are so harmful to partners.

If the compatibility forecast is full of contradictions, do not rush to give up on the union. There is a certain type of person whose natal charts have a lot of intense aspects. As a rule, they need to be more active to live a normal life. They are required to release energy so that it does not stagnate. If they do not act, these people will end up with more problems than benefits. If they have met a partner with the same intense chart, there will be a place for both passion and active pastime in their life together.

It should be understood that there are no perfectly harmonious unions, otherwise such a life would resemble a swamp. There is no growth in such couples, and a person should always have an incentive for personal development.

Knowing the date and place of birth of partners, as well as the exact time, you can get a joint horoscope. Compatibility of zodiac signs is based on a detailed analysis of the elements of the map. The approximate time of birth may cause an error or completely distort the results of the astrologer’s work. Based on these data, the specialist will be able to give an opinion about the prospects of the union.

Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Seal of happiness for a man

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect.

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity of the man.” This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Psychological Understanding

Examples of intimate compatibility horoscope:

intimate satisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Intimate dissatisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other, and there may even be a connection, but it cannot become strong after a while. It will be difficult for them to get satisfaction from each other, since in the compatibility horoscope there are no common points of contact, as if they “speak” different languages.

Excellent intimate compatibility!

A man and a woman can truly enjoy each other, being on the same wavelength of sensations and pleasant impressions. This is exactly the compatibility horoscope that gives the best picture - partners “charge” each other with positivity, which greatly strengthens their union.

No intimate crossings

In this case, it is more of a negative situation than a positive one. Partners need a certain core of the relationship, attraction, satisfaction with each other, which will keep them together and not allow them to look at other, more interesting candidates. It's quite difficult to get it here. Especially in the long term.

Examples of the level of happiness in the compatibility horoscope:

Seal of happiness

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Seal of happiness

A man makes a woman happier. He treats her more favorably than women with whom he does not have this aspect. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but the essence is the same - he is generous to her, ready to support and please her in every possible way. He is ready to answer her “Yes” more often to her various endeavors, requests and even whims. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Mutual seal of happiness!

This is a unique case - both partners make each other happier. Couples with this combination are very happy due to the fact that the partners mutually support each other and treat each other with warmth. With this combination and in the absence of other negative aspects in the love horoscope, they can survive almost any adversity, which in ordinary couples creates a difficult mood and disunity.

Examples of the level of unhappiness in the compatibility horoscope:

A sign of misfortune for a man

A woman suppresses a man. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the woman treats the man very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In her presence, he clearly feels this on himself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects in the compatibility horoscope are rarely formed, but if they are formed (for example, forced circumstances), then the man then suffers from the woman’s attacks, unless he is accustomed to matriarchy from childhood or loves the woman so much. A woman should pacify her demands on a man and try to treat him more gently and kindly.

A sign of misfortune for a woman

A man suppresses a woman. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the man treats the woman very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In his presence, she clearly feels this on herself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects are rarely formed, but if they are formed, the woman then suffers from the sometimes unreasonable harsh attitude of the man. This is fraught with depression on her part. A woman should not take a man’s harshness to heart and try to maintain a good mood.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear if the correct time of birth is entered)

Mutual seal of misfortune!

Both partners suppress each other. This is the most negative celestial combination that can be encountered in life. Couples with this aspect live in discord. Living in harmony and a healthy state of mind is very difficult. Usually such couples are formed due to forced circumstances.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear from the compatibility horoscope if the correct time of birth is indicated)

Examples of the level of conflict in the compatibility horoscope:

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

Conflict alliance

With this combination, a man and a woman oppose themselves to each other. There come times when they are tactless where necessary. It happens that a conflict arises out of nowhere: they become aggressive, stubborn or principled, believing that they are right, while refusing to apologize or take the blame. Failure to agree often leads to disunity, distance, and often the breakdown of relationships. If there are 3 such aspects in the compatibility horoscope, then good intimate compatibility is necessary, so that there is “something to forgive for”, so that there is affection.

Examples of external compatibility in a horoscope:

"External" compatibility (nice addition)

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity of the man.” This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect in the compatibility horoscope is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Minor "external" incompatibility

A man and a woman may not be exactly alike. This can be expressed, for example, in different tastes in clothing, in different lifestyles, in different facial features or different builds. In itself, this aspect in the compatibility horoscope does not cause any trouble.

Examples of psychological compatibility in a horoscope:

Psychological Understanding

A man and a woman understand each other well psychologically. With such aspects it is quite easy for them to communicate, share impressions and experiences. Perhaps a general sense of humor. The ability to understand your partner’s mood and adapt to the wave. Or sympathy for the partner’s inner world.

A little psychological misunderstanding

In this case, difficulties may arise in understanding one partner by the other. There are situations when it is difficult to convey your mood or experience so that your partner gets into it or at least understands what we are talking about.

This section of our website is dedicated to the topic of compatibility, which is important and relevant at all times. This astrological project invites you not only to evaluate your compatibility with your partner - whether it is good or bad - but also gives a description of various aspects of the relationship. Therefore, here you will find answers to all your questions on the topic of relationships and compatibility: about the quality of communication, about love, about sex, about mutual understanding... Just, please, do not be alarmed or upset if you find any shortcomings in the analysis of your relationship. Nothing is perfect in this world. We all dream of beautiful, strong, carefree love. But in reality you always have to face some difficulties. But this is precisely what makes life more interesting, this develops us and makes us stronger and wiser. Harmony in relationships is most often not a gift of fate, but the result of working on oneself. We all learn to love, learn to give in and understand each other. Our horoscope is not a reason for excessive criticism or discarding “less than ideal” candidates. Our compatibility horoscope is an interesting tool with which you can find weak and problematic areas in a relationship in order to take the situation into your own hands and change everything for the better by working a little on yourself. You may be interested to know: the experience of many astrologers who closely study the topic of love and relationships shows that the complete absence of conflicts and tension in a couple is not a very good factor for the duration of a relationship. When everything is always good and calm, it’s too boring! And quarrels and the danger of separation sometimes remind us so well of how dear our partner is to us. Moreover, it’s always so nice to make peace! Therefore, appreciate love - it is a great gift - appreciate those who are close to you. And if you have not yet met your soulmate, then our compatibility horoscope, we really hope, will help you with this. We wish you love and harmonious relationships!

02.07.2016 11:20

Many treatises on synastric astrology, dedicated to the compatibility of partners, consider many different factors, all planets, nodes, lots. If you use this entire cumbersome arsenal, it turns out that there cannot be completely harmonious unions. On the other hand, this approach does not make it possible to unambiguously answer such a question, for example: will this marriage end in separation or not? Because you can always find some positive indications along with the negative ones. But life shows that there are happy unions and unhappy couples. So what exactly determines this?

Which planets are the most influential in the fate of the union?

Sun

Determines the interaction of people at the level of understanding, at the level of ego-consciousness. It is important what sign the man has and what sign the woman has. That is, for example, the pair Capricorn Woman and Aries Man is not the same as Aries Woman and Capricorn Man, and so on for all other signs.

For clarity, let's draw a table showing which signs get along better/worse with whom.

Summary: the characteristic of compatibility according to the Zodiac Sign is a probabilistic thing; one can talk about the increased problematic or favorable nature of the union, but in this particular case one can never draw an unambiguous conclusion. That is, focusing on the signs of the Zodiac, it is impossible to give a specific answer about the prospects of relationships.

Moon

Responsible for the emotional and sensual side of a person’s life, his mental organization. If the Moons of two people are in harmonious aspect with each other (conjunction, sextile, trine), then we can say: they live in perfect harmony. This is a good emotional perception of each other, empathy, good contact at the level of simple bodily and daily needs (dishes, food, drink, ways to achieve emotional and bodily comfort). This is a favorable interaction at the level of the subconscious, inexpressible deep emotional movements.

Mercury

The planet is the least serious in compatibility astrology; no special problems ever arise, even if the Mercury partners are in a tense (square, opposition) aspect to each other. Mercury is responsible for communication skills, interaction at the level of a specific practical mind, at the level of speech. Of course, if two people have Mercury in a tense aspect, then they can argue, but all this is superficial, all this does not in any way affect their feelings for each other. There is a saying: " dear ones scold - just amuse themselves". This is about Mercury. There are a lot of couples in which the spouses do not talk to each other in any way, except through an argument. And nothing, they live long and even happily. They perceive this normally, they even consider these squabbles to be something like an intellectual game, This does not lead to any destructive consequences.

Venus

Responsible for the feeling of sympathy between people. This is the level of acceptance: like it - don't like it. As the saying goes: " she's not my type" (or vice versa). If Venus is in a harmonious aspect (conjunction, sextile, trine), then people sympathize with each other. They like each other. But this interaction is devoid of sexual overtones. This is precisely a feeling of sympathy. Very often harmonious Venus meets in friendly relations .

Mars

Energy of action. Naturally, it is best if Mars does not damage any planets in the partner’s chart, since in tense aspects Mars is a very aggressive, conflict-ridden planet. If two Mars in the horoscopes of partners are in a tense aspect (conjunction, square, opposition), then this is conflict on the physical level. I'm tempted to give it to him in the ear! Conflict at the level of specific actions and the use of physical force in relation to each other. Such partners can throw some object at each other or hit each other. It still depends on how aggressive Mars is in the chart of one and the other partner (they are bad/good by sign in the natal chart, have/don’t have harmonious aspects). In the worst case scenario, this can result in very serious injuries.

By the way, there are very rarely cases when Mars of one partner did not damage at least some planets in the chart of the other partner. But some damage can be ignored, while others can be very dangerous. If one person's Mars afflicts another person's Mars, Jupiter, Saturn or Pluto, then this is a serious problem. Also very seriously, when Mars damages a partner’s Moon, one (whose Moon) may literally cry from the other (whose Mars). Mars offends the Moon to the point of tears, screaming and hysterics to the point of sobbing. The remaining damage from Mars can be ignored. For example, one person’s Mars damages another’s Sun, no big deal. You can live with this.

Jupiter

Another conflicting planet. In synastric astrology, Jupiter works as a conflict planet. The intense interaction of two Jupiters (square, opposition) means conflict, but, unlike Mars, it manifests itself differently. Disturbance. An outburst of indignation when one is outraged by the behavior of another. The partner may slam the door and leave the house. He gets indignant and leaves (and Mars gets indignant and punches him in the eye).

Harmonious aspects of Jupiter to the partner's Sun or Moon provide very good compatibility. This is the aspect of happiness. The Sun or Moon feels happy under the influence of Jupiter. In astrology, this aspect has a special name - “The Seal of Happiness”. Especially if this situation is mutual - for example, Jupiter of one partner makes a trine to the Sun of the other partner, and Jupiter of the second partner makes a sextile to the Moon of the first partner.

When the situation is one-sided, then one person may give a feeling of happiness to the other, but he himself may not be very happy in such a partnership.

In this case, what does Jupiter give to one person’s Moon or Sun to the partner? Joy, optimism, healing influence.

So, looking at a person’s Jupiter, we look at its aspects to the partner’s conflicting planets - to the partner’s Mars, Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto. If there is no damage, then everything will be fine.

Saturn

Also a very important planet for synastric astrology. Saturnian conflict is, of course, different from Mars and Jupiter. If Saturn is damaged by the partner’s conflicting planets, then this manifests itself as a wall of alienation and silence; the person does not talk to his partner, and may not talk for a long time, several months, thereby punishing the partner for a long time and cruelly for some “offences.”

The aspects of Saturn to the partner’s Sun and Moon are also very important. It is very important that Saturn does not damage the Sun or Moon of the partner, otherwise we have a situation opposite to the harmonious aspects of Jupiter. Saturn in conjunction, square or opposition to the Sun or Moon of a partner is the so-called “Seal of Misfortune”.

What does this mean? Saturn suppresses the individuality (Sun) or psyche (Moon) of another person, humiliates and gets on the nerves. The victim (the one whose Moon or Sun) feels as if he has been driven over like a roller - a very unpleasant pressure that cannot be gotten rid of. Moreover, the one with Saturn can be a completely good person, a smart guy, a fun guy with a bunch of friends, but this is exactly how he acts on this particular partner. The partner (whose Sun or Moon) seems to be under pressure; this is a purely individual reaction. This situation is perceived especially dramatically when the suppressed person (whose Sun or Moon) is the same age or even older than the person who has Saturn. And then the suppressed person cannot come to terms with the “domination” of the other, and, moreover, this domination actually does not exist.

Uranus

Paradoxically (which, however, is in the style of Uranus), but this planet does not play a significant role in synastric astrology. It can introduce elements of surprise and eccentricity. Relationships can be very original and with their own twist.

Uranus, as the planet of divorce, works in the natal chart, but at the level of interaction of two cosmograms, no significant influences were found.

Neptune

Neptune can give charm and disappointment, misconceptions about the object of love. a feeling of fabulousness of what is happening, a state of painful dependence on a loved one - “love like a dream.” But, to A It turned out that this planet does not have any noticeable effects in terms of conflict or compatibility of partners.

Pluto

It is of great importance in synastric astrology as a conflict planet. If Pluto damages the partner’s conflicting planets (conjunction, square, opposition), then serious conflict situations arise. Pluto's conflict manifests itself as intransigence, the art of manipulation and control. No step back! Victory or death! Not an inch of our native land! Until the last drop of blood! Pluto does not concede an iota, fights until victory (or until death), the last point in the conflict must be his, the last word must be his, at all costs. And this is understandable, because Pluto is responsible for a person’s global self-affirmation in life. Pluto strives to conquer other people, but not two or three, but a crowd, a nation, or all of humanity at once.

References: S. Shestopalov

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Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Seal of happiness for a man

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect.

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity of the man.” This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Psychological Understanding

Examples of intimate compatibility horoscope:

intimate satisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Intimate dissatisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other, and there may even be a connection, but it cannot become strong after a while. It will be difficult for them to get satisfaction from each other, since in the compatibility horoscope there are no common points of contact, as if they “speak” different languages.

Excellent intimate compatibility!

A man and a woman can truly enjoy each other, being on the same wavelength of sensations and pleasant impressions. This is exactly the compatibility horoscope that gives the best picture - partners “charge” each other with positivity, which greatly strengthens their union.

No intimate crossings

In this case, it is more of a negative situation than a positive one. Partners need a certain core of the relationship, attraction, satisfaction with each other, which will keep them together and not allow them to look at other, more interesting candidates. It's quite difficult to get it here. Especially in the long term.

Examples of the level of happiness in the compatibility horoscope:

Seal of happiness

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Seal of happiness

A man makes a woman happier. He treats her more favorably than women with whom he does not have this aspect. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but the essence is the same - he is generous to her, ready to support and please her in every possible way. He is ready to answer her “Yes” more often to her various endeavors, requests and even whims. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Mutual seal of happiness!

This is a unique case - both partners make each other happier. Couples with this combination are very happy due to the fact that the partners mutually support each other and treat each other with warmth. With this combination and in the absence of other negative aspects in the love horoscope, they can survive almost any adversity, which in ordinary couples creates a difficult mood and disunity.

Examples of the level of unhappiness in the compatibility horoscope:

A sign of misfortune for a man

A woman suppresses a man. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the woman treats the man very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In her presence, he clearly feels this on himself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects in the compatibility horoscope are rarely formed, but if they are formed (for example, forced circumstances), then the man then suffers from the woman’s attacks, unless he is accustomed to matriarchy from childhood or loves the woman so much. A woman should pacify her demands on a man and try to treat him more gently and kindly.

A sign of misfortune for a woman

A man suppresses a woman. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the man treats the woman very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In his presence, she clearly feels this on herself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects are rarely formed, but if they are formed, the woman then suffers from the sometimes unreasonable harsh attitude of the man. This is fraught with depression on her part. A woman should not take a man’s harshness to heart and try to maintain a good mood.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear if the correct time of birth is entered)

Mutual seal of misfortune!

Both partners suppress each other. This is the most negative celestial combination that can be encountered in life. Couples with this aspect live in discord. Living in harmony and a healthy state of mind is very difficult. Usually such couples are formed due to forced circumstances.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear from the compatibility horoscope if the correct time of birth is indicated)

Examples of the level of conflict in the compatibility horoscope:

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

Conflict alliance

With this combination, a man and a woman oppose themselves to each other. There come times when they are tactless where necessary. It happens that a conflict arises out of nowhere: they become aggressive, stubborn or principled, believing that they are right, while refusing to apologize or take the blame. Failure to agree often leads to disunity, distance, and often the breakdown of relationships. If there are 3 such aspects in the compatibility horoscope, then good intimate compatibility is necessary, so that there is “something to forgive for”, so that there is affection.

Examples of external compatibility in a horoscope:

"External" compatibility (nice addition)

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity of the man.” This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect in the compatibility horoscope is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Minor "external" incompatibility

A man and a woman may not be exactly alike. This can be expressed, for example, in different tastes in clothing, in different lifestyles, in different facial features or different builds. In itself, this aspect in the compatibility horoscope does not cause any trouble.

Examples of psychological compatibility in a horoscope:

Psychological Understanding

A man and a woman understand each other well psychologically. With such aspects it is quite easy for them to communicate, share impressions and experiences. Perhaps a general sense of humor. The ability to understand your partner’s mood and adapt to the wave. Or sympathy for the partner’s inner world.

A little psychological misunderstanding

In this case, difficulties may arise in understanding one partner by the other. There are situations when it is difficult to convey your mood or experience so that your partner gets into it or at least understands what we are talking about.