What to do to make a married man generous. How to make a man more generous

The most Full description in every detail - read a love spell on a man’s generosity yourself with a fairly strong and safe magical effect.

From the letter: “...I’ve been dating for five years now, I don’t know if it’s love or not, but the habit is already quite strong. He is happy, and so am I, that we live separately. I have children, but he doesn’t seem to like children at all. But I don’t want such a family. So we meet three times a week. It’s just a shame that she has to feed him and give him something to drink from her children. He hasn’t brought a dry crust into the house in five years. He is very greedy, he saves everything for something. Now everything is expensive, a bag of coffee is only 1.5 rubles, but you need sugar, bread, butter to go with it. Fry three eggs and then take them out and put them in. Sometimes I won’t eat it myself, it’s all for the children and him. Once I got into a conversation with a neighbor. She told me that she would bring me a prayer and then he would carry everything to my house. She left for prayer and came back an hour later. She says she's looked through everything and can't find it.

Someone will probably laugh at my letter. But I think that anyone who has been in my shoes with three children and no money will understand me and will not judge me. Again, you can give me advice to leave him. And who needs me with children? And I'm only 35 years old."

There are such prayers, and I will now teach you two of them. But first, turn with a prayer of gratitude to our Creator Jesus Christ:

Your body is holy,

Lord Jesus Christ,

Our God, may there be eternal blood in my belly and blood

Your honor for the remission of sins:

May this thanksgiving be my joy,

health and joy; in a terrible way

and the second coming

Thine vouchsafe me, a sinner, to the right hand of glory

Yours, through the prayers of Your Most Pure Mother

I pray to you, Holy Prophet Elijah,

Send me 12 angels

with white wings,

with gilded candles.

Surround them oppositely and crosswise.

Let all 12 go and find the servant of God (name),

They will drive three nails into his heart.

First - you can’t be greedy,

The second is a dear gift,

Third - generous soul,

from the last penny he buys me everything I want.

The word is mine. The matter, Ilya, is yours.

Amen. Amen. Amen.

Another conspiracy.

They take a hop stalk, put it in their bosom and walk around their loved one. The stem is spoken like this:

You twisted, entwined, with your pole

did not part, but clung to his pole.

Let the slave (name) not squeeze, give me his money

does not regret, pampers me and cherishes me.

Just as a mother spares her daughter neither bread nor brocade,

slave (name) all swords on my table...

Carry it like a mother bird carries it to the nest,

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How to teach a man to be generous?

How to get him to give gifts?

I started asking these questions when I was sixteen. And certainly not to simply “profit” at someone else’s expense. But then, in order to evoke even stronger and more obvious feelings in my man.

I never liked bouquets of cut flowers, but passing by a flower shop, I shamelessly demanded that my future husband buy me another broom of roses. I understood that he had a modest salary and no extra money, but I also understood that it should always be on me. Let him spend it on me, let him make it a habit to please me! If there is a desire, the means will arrive in time.

Learn to ask correctly

If you want to teach a man to be generous, the first thing you should be able to do is. Not everyone is capable of asking shamelessly and at the same time delicately. This works best for a spoiled child. When “their spontaneity” says the unfailing “Dad, buy it!”, it is never perceived as vulgar. The success of such a request lies in the fact that the child does not doubt the love of his parent, and is also confident that he really needs the required thing, that he deserves it. Therefore, when the “beloved child” asks, he does not feel any fear that he will be “sent away”.

In the process of such a relationship with daddy, a pleasant reflex is reinforced - “asked and received.” Thus, the child develops a fearless character, which is why they say: “Children must be pampered, then they will grow up to be real robbers.”

In contrast to this example, most women either do not know how to do it at all, or do it, causing damage to their feelings self-esteem, which fundamentally contradicts our postulate that men should be treated easily and without tension.

So why do many of you, so beautiful and smart, still not teach your men to be generous?

The most popular answer: “Pride does not allow us to ask; we want to be independent of men.” If your pride supposedly does not allow you to put your desires into verbal form, then!

Regarding venality: one way or another, we all put ourselves up for auction. Whether we are getting a job or looking for a life partner, we always dream of being appreciated. And this is good, it means they are present in us.

There is no need to be indifferent towards the material side of life - you need to purposefully teach your man to be “gift-giving” in the name of strengthening his own feelings.

In fact, a “giving” man values ​​more a woman who “takes with pleasure” than one who loves him “for nothing.” The more time, money and effort is spent on a person, the further the giving side tends to go in their feelings. It's like building a house. He says: “I put my soul into it, how can I sell it!” The receiving party usually takes a “cooler” position.

Nietzsche said it well: “Truly just people do not accept gifts. They bring everything back. That is why they disgust those who love them.”

Demanding as a lifestyle

2. Give gifts to men first, and they will definitely give back. And if not, then these are not your men.
The greatest effect on a person is produced not by gifts “on occasion,” but by “the dictates of the soul.” If you don’t know when to give such a gift, scroll through the calendar - there is a holiday listed there for every day. There are days for trade workers, doctors and even astronauts! In addition, there are also name days - days when all Georgievs, Andreevs, Alexandrovs, etc. are congratulated. He will appreciate your attention and sense of humor. In any case, in the eyes of your man, this will add points to you. After all, you must admit, not everyone would have thought of such a thing. This is exactly the case when you can make the smallest monetary contribution, but make the maximum impression with your gift.

Under no circumstances, do not spend a lot of money on a gift for a man, even if it is his birthday, it is better to do something with your own hands. It will be cute and exclusive at the same time. Expensive status things strong man he will buy it for himself, and will not wait for a gift from a woman. Remember: a man does not value material investments from a woman - he values ​​his own investments in her!

3. Let the man understand that you need money not to satisfy primary needs, but to obtain various pleasures. Even if that's not really the case. Don’t need these sickening phrases: “Put it on my phone, otherwise I’m out of money” or “Buy me a bottle of mineral water, otherwise I forgot my wallet.” The rich man does not like to give alms, he likes to spend his money tastefully. Show that you have this very taste, and he will gladly empty his pockets and “boo” with you.

4. Don’t feel the false sense of guilt of being “the daughter of a stingy father.” Remember, spending your man’s money with or without him is an honor for any woman. You have the right to do so. Because according to the law of attraction of two hearts, you are him. By doing this, you will only become closer to each other.

5. Show your man that spending large amounts of money on you is okay. How to show? Make it normal inside yourself. If you “understand everything, but you can’t help yourself” - break the “Cinderella” stereotype: throwing away embarrassment, quickly go to your dear daddy and treacherously empty HIS pockets. If it works out with my father, it will be much easier with other men. Thus, you will honorably return all your father’s “debts.”

6. From time to time, remind yourself of an important thing: I am a gift in myself, I deserve not to be curried!

P.S: When you start doing everything according to this article and you have success, you will ask yourself the question: “Does a woman need to work if men already give everything?” We have a video on this topic on our website called that?

Soul and soul have been put into this article. personal experience. The video explains how personal experience influences the value of the materials offered.

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First read 3 times.

Then “Prayer to Jesus Christ”:
“Thy holy body, Lord Jesus Christ, our God, be unto me in the eternal life and Thy venerable grace for the remission of sins: grant me this thanksgiving for joy, health and gladness, in the terrible life and Thy second coming make me worthy, a sinner, at the right hand glorify Thy, through the prayers of Thy Most Pure Mother and all the saints.” 3 times.

CONSPIRACY:
“I pray to you, Holy Prophet Elijah, God’s servant..... (NAME), send me 12 angels with white wings, with gilded candles. Surround them counter and crosswise, let all 12 go, find the servant of God...(NAME), drive three nails into his heart: The first - you can’t be greedy, the second - a dear gift, the third - a generous soul, from the last so that a penny can buy me everything that I will want. The word is mine, the work, Ilya, is yours. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen. 3 times.

Key:
“This word is a strengthening and affirmation, it is strengthened and closed by it, and nothing, neither air nor storm nor water, opens this matter” 9 times.
At the end: Thousand. All this can be read in the photo of the man. The next day you go to church, light a large candle for Elijah the Prophet, thank him for his help and give generous alms.

A CONSPIRACY TO FORCE ANOTHER PERSON TO FULFILL HIS WISHES

“Grow, willow, grow. Bloom, willow, blossom. Live, willow live. Let it be my way: let both the old and the young, the poor and the rich, the single and the married, both insiders and strangers, any person, listen to me. Let them do what I command, let them not disobey, let everyone pamper me and please me with all my heart. My word is law; my word is true. Stone, tongue, castle. Amen."

As you say, break the willow branches. Set one aside, and break the others, saying: “It is not your will, servant of God (name), do it my way” (name what is required). And so on as many times as you need to fulfill your wishes. Keep the set aside branch safe and sound. She is your promise. A symbol of your unquestionable will.

A CONSPIRACY SO THAT THE MAN'S RELATIVES WILL NOT CONSIST

For this plot, you need to find a willow tree growing over the river, caress it, hug it. Say:

“There is a willow tree over the river. The willow tree looks over the water. And in the water - the river people. The great king is aquatic, mermaids and moths, frogs and leeches, and fish, crucian carp and burbot, catfish and pike. They are sitting in the river, looking at me, but everyone is silent; their mouths open, no words are spewed out. Just as the river fish are silent, so let my father-in-law and mother-in-law, with my husband’s relatives, also be silent, do not scold me, do not contradict me in anything! And may my word be strong!”

Having said this, you need to throw pieces of bread into the river, aiming at the place where the willow is reflected. There should be as many pieces as the husband’s relatives. Throwing the bread, say: “The servant of God (name) has his mouth busy with work, his mouth is full of bread, he doesn’t scold or sing, just know he’s chewing.”

A CONSPIRACY TO GET YOUR OWN
“Willow-willow, branches in the water, worm in the hollow. It's sharpening you from the inside, it wants to destroy you. He has gnawed long paths in the trunk, he has gnawed secret passages in the branches, he is creeping up to your roots, he wants to destroy you, dear. I will help you, I will save your sprout. Let it grow and curl, and let me, the servant of God (name), succeed in everything! Amen."
With these words, you need to break off a twig from the willow and take it home. At home, place it in a container of water in a bright place and wait for it to take root. As soon as it takes root, you will be able to achieve everything you planned. And you will plant that twig near the water so that there will be a new tree.

Here is an ancient and relatively harmless way to use plant magic from our great-great-grandmothers.

A conspiracy to make a man generous (about a gift)

Find a willow bush in the park - they usually grow in large numbers near ponds, swampy lowlands... (in winter you can recognize it by its long hanging branches) - not those that hang under the weight of snow, but on their own.

A woman who has buried her husband must burn her widow’s scarf on the fortieth day, while reading a special conspiracy. If she does not get rid of the widow's scarf, then it is possible that she will live out her life alone. The plot is like this:

“In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. I go out into the street through the bracket and under the ceiling, carrying a handkerchief in my right hand. Go, my misfortune, in smoke, come back with a wedding crown, a wedding ring. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen."

To make it easier to get up in the morning

To make it easier to get up in the morning, to make it easier for you to wake up, and to prevent you from falling asleep during the day, every time before you go to bed, drink a glass of water and read the spell on it 12 times:

“Sleep at night, get up in the morning. I’ll get up cheerfully and walk briskly. Daylight forces, come into me, live in me. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen."

Seven stones for seven troubles

This summer rite will help you quickly get rid of many troubles. It is especially effective when it is carried out at sea, but any other body of water will do - a river, a lake, a pond.

Go to the water and collect seven stones along the way. Stand with your back to the water, right hand Over your left shoulder, throw stones into the water in one movement and say three times:

“Seven stones will come together in a circle and take away my misfortune. In this circle everything is wrong, in it my trouble is a trifle! (Now in your own words, briefly say in an affirmative form what needs to be gotten rid of or what needs to be fulfilled.) So be it and so be it!”

Come home to continue the ritual - it must be completed in one day. Take a raw chicken egg, sit at the table, put a new white candle and prepare everything that may concern your desire: photographs, things, documents (after all, we can talk about a company, court, exams, relationships...) The choice of desires is not limited. Hold the egg over the candle fire for a little while and start rolling it over objects related to your problem. For at least five minutes you tell the egg that you want to decide what result you need. Do not press too hard on the egg. If you crack it, the problem may not be solved for a long time!

Now take a carnation or a needle and an egg and go outside. We need to find a tree with male name- oak, poplar, maple, cypress (whatever you have growing) and, making a small hole, place the egg in it. Using a nail or a needle, after you have sprinkled the “burial”, circle this place and again pronounce the spell into the sky three times: “Seven stones will come together in a circle and they will take away my misfortune. In this circle everything is wrong, in it my trouble is a trifle! (What a disaster...) So be it and so be it!”

We immediately throw away the needle or nail and return home. Under no circumstances should you look back! At home, you need to rinse your hands under the running water. cold water and forget to think about the problem. Everything will be formed within 28 days.

Ritual for love, prosperity and sweet life

This ritual is performed once a year at the crossroads of the years. So, a week before the New Year, on the night from Thursday to Friday, on a piece of A4 paper, you should write your three most cherished wishes related to money, a good life and love, the fulfillment of which you would like in the coming year.

Moreover, your desires should be connected only with you. That is, wanting a promotion wages to your husband or happy marriage his best friend in this ritual it is not just not recommended, but forbidden. Simply put, a ritual will have no effect if the main actor you yourself will not be in it.

After you have written down your three most cherished desires on a piece of paper, you should write under them: “So be it!” Next, you must put the following components on the sheet with wishes: a piece of black bread, a piece of sugar and one red rose, which must be personally purchased by you and not given by someone.

After this, you should pick up the piece of paper and frantically whisper, like a primeval priestess, for at least five minutes that all your wishes will come true within a year. You must roll all the above components - bread, sugar, rose - into a leaf, and then wrap the precious bundle with red and green threads, and also seal it with white candle wax. Under no circumstances – not yellow! You must place the bundle under the mattress, where it must lie for two weeks (fourteen days and nights): one week before the New Year and one week after the New Year. If you do not spend one night at home, then this night does not count in this ritual, and the time the bundle lies under your mattress increases by exactly one day.

After allotted time has expired and you have slept on your bundle of wishes for fourteen nights, this bundle should be placed in your photo on the highest and most open place in the apartment (closet, sideboard, etc.) so that other people cannot see your magical bundle. This ritual is done for one year, that is, it works for exactly a year.

Ritual to bring a person home

If you need to remind a person who has not made himself known for a long time and force him to return home, then resort to the help of this ritual. If the person is alive, he will show up soon. The spirits sent for him will not leave him alone: ​​they will force him to call, write or return. The sending, or - in other words - return, is done in the following way. They take the dress or shirt of the one who must return, tie it in a knot and hang it on a rope from the ceiling, then place the knife with the sharp end in the corner of the room and say:

“Spirit, go! Bring God's servant (name)! Until he comes to his home, he will not find peace in his heart. Through the burning candles he suffers and suffers. Go home!"

Having said this, the knife is rotated so hard that the blade creaks. After this, the apple is broken, one half is immediately eaten, and the second is placed next to the knife. They light a candle, and when it burns out, the next one, and so on for exactly forty candles.

The ritual of establishing a connection with the ancestors

The first ritual that you will need to perform is the “Witchcraft Blessing” ritual.

The essence of the ritual is to establish a spiritual connection with the sorcerers, magicians, healers who lived before you; and if you had a sorcerer or witch in your family, then this is generally wonderful. For the ritual you will need 12 candles, black cloth and water. The ritual is performed on the waxing moon and, as a rule, there is no need to fake it. The ritual will need to be repeated if you do not feel a spiritual connection, but this time the plot will need to be read not three, but twelve times. On the day when you perform the ritual, you must fast and also give up any fun in order to prepare yourself for the ritual. Late in the evening, lay a black cloth on the table, place water in the center, and 12 candles around it. Read the “Our Father” three times and then the spell three times:

“In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Everyone who lived before me, worked divination, knew destinies, healed with herbs and roots, I now call on you. I bow my knees to you, the witchcraft generations, the witchcraft generations, and I expect help from you. You bless me for this work, protect me from the forces of darkness, protect me from enemies. I speak these words in truth, and if I retreat, let the earth take me to itself, not one sorcerer will save me. Amen. Amen. Amen".

Afterwards you need to leave the water on the table until the candles burn out. Drink water afterwards.

Now you have help and refuge from another world. Before an important ritual, when you need help, read the “Witchcraft word before the ritual” plot three times:

“The witchcraft births, the witchcraft births, read this conspiracy with me and help me in the matter. Amen. »

If we take the philosophy of this ritual, it is as follows: the church divides saints into categories - prophets, martyrs, righteous people, great martyrs, pious kings, etc. Though modern church does not recognize healers, but remember the Gospels, when Jesus was told that someone was healing in his name and he told them to leave him and let him heal. This is the essence of this ritual, to call for help the RIGHTEOUS souls of healers and masters, whom the Lord has vouchsafed to Paradise for their zealous merits, righteous deeds and all-night prayers. How are they worse than saints? We pray to saints, martyrs, and righteous people! The healers also fasted, spent days and nights in prayer and performed miracles in the name of the Lord, and therefore we can and will turn to them for help when we need it.

Conspiracy for generosity

“Thy holy body, Lord Jesus Christ, our God, and may it be unto me for everlasting life, and thy venerable blood for the remission of sins: may this thanksgiving be unto me joy, health and gladness; in the terrible life and Thy second coming, grant me, a sinner, to the right hand of Thy glory, through the prayers of Thy Most Pure Mother and all the saints.”

Then take a photo of a man or imagine his visual image, and read the plot:

“I pray to you, Holy Prophet Elijah, God’s servant (name). Send me 12 angels, with white wings, with gilded candles. Let all 12 go, find the servant of God (name), drive three nails into his heart: the first - you can’t be greedy, the second - a dear gift, the third - a generous soul, so that from the last penny you can buy me everything I want. The word is mine, the work, Ilya, is yours. Key, lock, tongue. Amen, amen, amen."

Speak out of anger and temper

On a flawed moon on a woman’s day (Wednesday, Friday, Saturday) for a woman, on a man’s day (Monday, Tuesday, Thursday) for a man in the morning, afternoon and evening, close the hook (latch) on the door and say:

“My cross, my strength, the Cross - God's symbol. My Baptist is with me, my great cross. The angel held him in his hands. He drove out the evil demon from the slave (name). I conquered with God’s word.”

Conspiracy against trouble

“I am speaking, slave (name), to my beloved young man (name) from a sorcerer man, from a raven, from a witch woman, from an old man and an old woman, from a hermit, a hermit. I send everyone from my dear friend to walk through the forest, take a needle case, according to his faith, and while he is alive, no one would dishonor or despise him. I speak to my slave (name), my beloved fellow (name), about saving on the road tightly, forever, for the rest of my life. Whoever plucks and eats all the grass from the meadow, drinks all the water from the sea and does not get hungry, and he would not have prevailed over my word, and would not have broken my conspiracy. Who from evil people he will look at him, and despise him, and bewitch him, and spoil him, then their eyes would turn out of their foreheads into the back of their heads, and my beloved fellow (name) will have a path and a path, good health at my separation."

How to teach a man to be generous? How to get him to give gifts?

I started asking these questions when I was sixteen. And certainly not to simply “profit” at someone else’s expense. But then, in order to evoke even stronger and more obvious feelings in my man.

I never liked bouquets of cut flowers, but passing by a flower shop, I shamelessly demanded that my future husband buy me another broom of roses. I understood that he had a modest salary and no extra money, but I also understood that it should always be on me. Let him spend it on me, let him make it a habit to please me! If there is a desire, the means will arrive in time.

Learn to ask correctly

If you want to teach a man to be generous, the first thing you should be able to do is ask correctly. Not everyone is capable of asking shamelessly and at the same time delicately. This works best for a spoiled child. When “their spontaneity” says the unfailing “Dad, buy it!”, it is never perceived as vulgar. The success of such a request lies in the fact that the child does not doubt the love of his parent, and is also confident that he really needs the required thing, that he deserves it. Therefore, when a “beloved child” asks, he does not feel any fear that he will be “sent away.”

In the process of such a relationship with daddy, a pleasant reflex is reinforced - “asked and received.” Thus, the child develops a fearless character, which is why they say: “Children must be pampered, then they will grow up to be real robbers.”

In contrast to this example, most women either do not know how to ask at all, or do it, damaging their self-esteem, which fundamentally contradicts our postulate that men should be treated easily and without tension.

So why do many of you, so beautiful and smart, still not teach your men to be generous? The most popular answer: “Pride does not allow us to ask; we want to be independent of men.” But this is self-deception! In fact, when you created a couple, you already became dependent on each other. And the point here is different - that you consider yourself unworthy to “take.”

Where did you get this disease? It's all from there! From the unforgettable family charter. Most likely, your beloved daddies were big stingy people, and you learned from childhood: ask or ask, you won’t get anything anyway. And if he does, then only with the obligatory condition - to work it out! And this “condition” now becomes like a bone across your throat, preventing you from establishing a normal dialogue with your loved one, with a slight movement of your hand, laying out all his material values ​​in front of you.

Then they would certainly remind you that I gave you “this,” but you, so ungrateful, did not live up to my hopes, that is, “did not work.” IN unconditional love To this day, you don’t have faith in you from a man, so you are forced to curry favor. And even now, when you have become an adult, the mere thought of asking a man for something makes you feel a little nauseous.

His fifteen-year-old daughter became addicted to going to cafes with her friend. Her father didn’t like this and one day, by chance, he casually dropped the phrase in front of her: “It’s funny to look at these decorated beggars in the Vesna cafe.” They sit all evening with some kind of juice and pull, pull, pull it for three hours, until, out of pity, some sucker treats them to something more substantial.” The daughter turned out to be smart. When she became an adult, she treats men herself.

One day Larisa's boyfriend told her a heartbreaking story about his ex-girlfriend, whom he “loved very much,” while she was “so shameless, all she did was constantly twist him for money.” We must give him his due - he was never stingy with his ex. Rings, bracelets - gold, diamonds. The story of their breakup alone is worth it: he just didn’t have enough for the diamond necklace that the “mercantile creature” ordered for her anniversary.

Impressed by his story, Larisa decided: I will definitely prove to him that “I’m not like that.” She kept her promise to herself - her beloved, apparently sensing her monastic indifference to the material side of the relationship, gave her more than modest gifts. So she reveled in the feeling of her high morality until she was sent home in a taxi, which they did not even bother to pay for.

After such “adventures” you join the ranks of ladies emancipated beyond the norm, for whom it is easier to take a man for support, “lowering” him to the level of a gigolo, than to interact with a normal man. Strong women, deprived of the opportunity to “take easily” from childhood, automatically reject potential patrons throughout their lives.

However, sometimes it can be worse - unloved daughters grow up to be chronic losers and victims of despots, who also reject all potential “givers”. Outwardly, this can manifest itself like this: as soon as a man promises such a lady something “good,” she, instead of smiling approvingly and “thanking him in advance,” frowns and begins to play at being independent and incorruptible.

A kind of kicking horse, which, due to its own “kicking,” does not allow itself to be properly fed. Well, if she is too zealous, sooner or later she will attract those who cynically turn her into a draft horse. Independence is always good, but sometimes flaunting it is just stupid.

I think it would be better to do this: for all the good things that a man promised to do to you, you need to look at him kindly and thank him in advance. For a woman, this is non-binding flirting, and for a man, such behavior is an excellent incentive to continue to communicate with her, and even “appease” her with something more tangible than “just words.”

There is no need to be indifferent towards the material side of life - you need to purposefully teach your man to be “gift-giving”, in the name of strengthening his own feelings.

In fact, a “giving” man values ​​more a woman who “takes with pleasure” than one who loves him “for nothing.” The more time, money and effort is spent on a person, the further the giving side tends to go in their feelings. It's like building a house. He says: “I put my soul into it, how can I sell it!” The receiving party usually takes a “cooler” position.

Nietzsche said it well: “Truly just people do not accept gifts. They bring everything back. That is why those who love them are disgusted.”

Demanding - as a lifestyle

So, be generous. Teach your man to be generous and give you gifts. And if he tells you: “Ask for whatever you want,” “wish” the most precious thing. Within reasonable limits, of course. If you are accustomed to cheap cosmetics and clothes, to the cheapest dishes from the menu of cheap cafes, this is also an indicator for a man.

You will say, how can this be, we are not prostitutes to charge men for our company! We are decent women. By the way, regarding venality, one way or another, we all put ourselves up for auction. Whether we are getting a job or looking for a life partner, we always dream of being appreciated. And this is good, it means we have healthy ambition.

In order to declare yourself as a luxury woman, it is not necessary to be beautiful, it is more important to be well-groomed. But true grooming is not one-time visits to a cosmetologist, but daily self-control, which comes from being demanding of yourself. Figuratively speaking, you can indifferently increase fat and ignore wrinkles, or you can solve these problems.

It is useful to develop demandingness as a lifestyle not only in relation to yourself, but also in relation to your man. And you don’t have to spend a lot to create an “expensive image.” Why hang yourself with numerous shiny trinkets? Rather than create an image of “cheapness”, it is better to do without any decorations at all. You know, as noble ladies at court used to say: “You have to come for alms in your own carriage.”

Your “carriage” is not only your “psychological attitude”, it is also, to some extent, your appearance. And your appearance is an indicator of what is the norm for you, and most importantly, what you, with your dear soul, are ready to accept from your man. If today you agree to wear cheap jewelry, you most likely will not be given diamonds.

By and large, it all depends on the recipient, and not on the donor. Life shows that the same men with different women they act completely differently: when buying a diamond necklace for one - parallel mistress, with a clear conscience they present it with a discounted stainless steel ring. Take it as a fact, your beloved men are people like everyone else - they perfectly see where and with whom you can save a lot of money. What about justice? - you exclaim indignantly. And I will answer you that in fact, this is fair... because like always attracts like: Diamonds are only suitable for gold, but not for stainless steel!

Twenty-year-old Masha's lover was her sixty-year-old boss, the director of the restaurant where she worked. She needed material support - he needed a vivid demonstration of his persistent masculine strength. At first, he regularly gave her gifts and gave her significant sums, but one day everything changed.
That day they were going to the sauna, and on the way, in order to save money, she asked him to buy her shampoo and shower gel. To once again does not spend money from her own pocket, after the “fun” the practical girl put the wet bottles in a bag and took them home.
It would seem that it’s time to feel sorry for Mashenka and start giving her more needles and pins. Ah, no! From that very day, “investments” in the young mistress began to come only in products and household chemicals. And to a minimum. A to when the girl expressed indignation, her lover “came to his senses” and began to pay for each intimacy at the price of... a modest food package.
It’s just that he decided that someone like Masha was enough. Why overpay above the indicated cost?

It is important to understand that the handout you accept from him lowers you to a level from which it is already very difficult to scrape off your self-esteem. Picking up “the master’s change” is the same as finishing his dish in a cafe - all these are the habits of the poor and fools. You only need to take it big, or even sleep with him without money and without gifts and not give him anything yourself!

Of course, everyone has their own price level. To whom more is given, more is due. It is not appropriate for an oil tycoon to give his beloved woman a lonely coffee cup on Valentine's Day if she is not from pure gold with inlay of precious stones.

Since ancient times, a man has made offerings to a woman as a sign of his adoration. Centuries have passed and... nothing has changed! Don't deprive him of the pleasure of being a generous “giver”! Awaken in a born money-grubber the desire to feel like a patron or just a “daddy.” Love for a woman, which results in big expenses for a man, only benefits him, because it forces him to be active: earn money, make a career, overcome difficulties. And if you directly tell him: “You know, I don’t need anything from you, I love you anyway and any hut of your choice will suit me” - then he remains passive and gets bored. You don’t “charge” him, he doesn’t get his adrenaline.

When you put yourself in the position of a loser, you only make it worse for him! He will not strive to shower you with gold and diamonds and change something in his life for this - you do not give him the motivation for this. Do you console yourself with the fact that you are so selfless, soft and fluffy? In vain.
I’ll tell you one on this topic true story, more like a joke.

A couple in love passes by the stadium.
- Darling, in the name of our love I will win the Golden Cup!
_Whether you win it or not is not that important to me. I am ready to love you without any cups!
He didn't win the gold cup...
A couple in love passes by the stadium again.
- Darling, it seems I’m losing shape; time to resume training...
- Don't worry, I will love you even if your belly grows.
Time passes. The guy quits sports, quits training and begins to rapidly get fat... Again they waddle past the stadium. He buys a bottle of beer and drinks it on the go.
- How much can you drink? If you love me, you should leave me! - She protests, taking the bottle from him.
- Is it true? Do you remember when I was a budding athlete, you said that you would love me no matter who I was or what I did? In the name of our love, love me as I am. And... uh, give me my beer here!

How to teach a man to give gifts (condensed)

The issue of “spending on you” is simply a matter of prioritizing. Quite a lot of things may be much more “important” to him than you: alcohol, friends, entertainment or even “girlfriends”. When it occurs to you to enter into his “distressed” situation, think about this.

1. Test the waters: borrow some significant amount of money from him and pay back. If he reminds you, draw your own conclusions.

2. In the vocabulary of some “especially gifted” ladies, the word “buy” does not exist at all - it is replaced by the tactful word: “needed”. Men listen to the words “I want” and “need” much more; they don’t irritate them as much as “buy.”
Work with the word follows
blowing scheme. From time to time, in conjunction with this “magic” word, you mention the desired thing, as if accidentally remembering it. You remind about this often, but briefly. Under no circumstances allow any whining! Moreover, he should not have the impression that these words are addressed directly to him. Remember: you simply voice your desires out loud, without asking him for anything and without being embarrassed.

If he is not a pathological miser and has feelings for you, he will do what you need. And if he doesn’t have such an opportunity now, he’ll think about iton how to find it. Thus, you will kill two birds with one stone: you will give a person an impetus to development and get the desired thing from him.

There is one important nuance in this method - men catch the word “need” mainly from women whose relationships are already “boiling” with might and main, but are not yet “ready” to the end. That is, if all you do is look into his mouth and try to go with himexactly in step, if you have pleased him in all the ways already known to you - relax, he will not spend too much on you. Because you are already a conquered object for him. In this case, look through my book and reconsider your belief system.

3. Give gifts to men first, and they will definitely give back. And if not - s on
cheat these are not your men.
The greatest effect on a person is produced not by gifts “on occasion,” but by “the dictates of the soul.” If you don't know when to presentsuch a gift, scroll through the calendar - there is a holiday listed there for every day. There are days for trade workers, doctors and even astronauts! In addition, there are also name days - days when all Georgievs, Andreevs, Alexandrovs, etc. are congratulated. He will appreciate your attention and sense of humor. In any case, in the eyes of your man, this will add points to you. After all, you must admit, not everyone would have thought of such a thing. This is exactly the case when you can make the smallest monetary contribution, but make the maximum impression with your gift. .

4. Let the man understand that you need money not to satisfy primary needs, but to obtain various pleasures. Even if that's not really the case. Don’t need these sickening phrases: “Put it on my phone, otherwise I’m out of money” or “Buy me a bottle of mineral water, otherwise I forgot my wallet.” The rich man does not like to give alms, he likes to spend his money tastefully. Show that you have this very taste, and he will gladly empty his pockets and “boo” with you.

5. Don’t feel the false sense of guilt of being “the daughter of a stingy father.” Remember, spending your man’s money with or without him is an honor for any woman. You have the right to do so. Because according to the law of attraction of two hearts, you are him. By doing this, you will only become closer to each other.

6. Show your man that spending large amounts of money on you is okay. How to show? Make it normal inside yourself. If you “understand everything, but you can’t help yourself,” break the “Cinderella” stereotype: throwing away embarrassment, quickly go to your dear daddy and treacherously empty HIS pockets. If it works out with your father, it will be much easier with other men. Thus, you will honorably return all of your father’s “debts.”

7. From time to time, remind yourself of an important thing: I am a gift in myself, I deserve not to be curried!