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Unusual and strange names

Men's and female names

Unusual and strange names always pose a challenge to generally accepted norms in society. On the one hand, this is an unusual fate, on the other hand, it is an increased burden on a person.

Brief energy information characteristics of some names

Daniel

Daniel– blocks the 6th and 7th energy centers. The 1st center is slightly blocked. But the 3rd, slightly 2nd and even less 4th centers are activated.

The vibrations of this name significantly dull mental capacity. A woman with this name will not achieve career growth. Most likely he will do physical labor. There is a possibility that she will go into prostitution to earn a living with her body.

She doesn’t want to work, she doesn’t know how to think, she has no desire to get an education, so she will try to make money with what she has. And there is only the body.

This is one of the most unfortunate female names. If a woman is given this name, it means she has very heavy karma, mainly negative spiritual developments from past incarnations.

The color of the name is orange with a black halo.

The image of the name is a masculine woman of 35-40 years old carrying a sleeper in the rain.

The name Daniela carries completely opposite qualities and a different destiny compared to Daniela.

Wanda

Wanda– the name activates female sexuality quite well. She will be irresistible in sex. Men will be crazy about her. She also loves men very much. Children will be born easily.

She will most likely have a penchant for studying foreign languages. She is sociable and smart.

She is unlikely to make a career, but financially she will feel good.

It is best for her to work in men's team, or sell products for men.

This name promises a woman interesting life. With this name a woman can be truly happy.

The name is material.

A good choice for woman.

Agena

Agena– All human energy is concentrated along the spine, that is, energy is concentrated along the spine. This makes a person assertive, concentrated, capable of any decisive action.

This name is suitable for a woman who has decided to make a career, earn money and accumulate material wealth.

About personal happy life With this name you don’t have to dream, although if a person has good spiritual achievements and is able to withstand the pressure of the harsh energy of this name, then his personal life can work out.

The color of the name is black and red. This is the color of the planet Pluto.

This name is perfect for a woman involved in practical magic, that is, which carries out specific magical actions.

Agena is a material, magical person who can be dangerous.

This name helps a woman become self-confident, self-sufficient, and achieve success in society. But the name is somewhat aggressive.

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Unusual and strange names. Male and female names

Top 10: The most unusual names in the world

1st place: Some time ago in France there lived a family deprived of the most ordinary surname. Instead, she “wore” a set of numbers - 1792. And four sons in this family bore the names of the months of the year. Thus, in the passport and other documents it looked like this: January 1792, February 1792, March 1792 and April 1792. Last representative of this strange family, "Mr. March 1792", died in September 1904.

2nd place: And the Jackson family from Chicago branded their five children, naming them: Meningitis, Laryngitis, Appendicitis, Peritonitis, Tonsillitis.

3rd place: Psychologist John Train has prepared a book of the most absurd names that some Americans suffer from. For example, the Mai family from New Orleans chose the names Mu, Wu, Gu for their daughters.

4th place: In one village in Kandhmala there is a guy named I love potatoes.

5th place: “Hello, Two kilograms of rice!”, “Hello, Silver Dollar!” - this is how two residents of the Kandhmal region in the Indian state of Orissa greet each other when they meet. This corner of India holds the lead in the most unusual names that parents come up with for their children. Two kilograms of rice are a memory of the gift sent by the state: this is the measure of rice that is given out by decision of the authorities for each child born.

6th place: I think that after this a girl named Princess Diana and a boy christened Hamlet, born in Kharkov in 1998, will seem to you just a little innocent prank of their parents

7th place: Lorierik ("Lenin, the October Revolution, Industrialization, Electrification, Radioization and Communism"), Uryurvkos ("Hurray, Yura in Space!"), Kukutsapol ("Corn is the Queen of the Fields"), Lagshmivara ("Schmidt's Camp in the Arctic "), Dazdraperma ("Long Live the First of May!").

8th place: The name of Miss S. Ellen Georgiana Ser-Lecken, who was born in 1979 in Montana, USA. The first letter C is the beginning of her name, which is “only” 598 letters long. Her loved ones call her Snowwool or simply Oli. Well, the census takers, apparently, put it even simpler: “Oh, Lord! She’s here again!”

9th place: In the Hawaiian Islands, she entered one of the schools in the city of Honolulu youngest daughter owner of one of the local restaurants. Her first and last name consist of 102 letters. Here they are: Napu-Amo-Hala-Ona-Ona-Aneka-Wehi-Wehi-Ona-Hiwea-Nena-Wawa-Keho-Onka-Kahe-Hea-Leke-Ea-Ona-Ney-Nana-Nia-Keko-Oa -Oga-Wan-Ika-Wanao. They were never able to include it in the class magazine. In Russian this means: "Numerous beautiful flowers of the mountains and valleys begin to fill Hawaii's length and breadth with their fragrance."

10th place: Famous artist Pablo Picasso is known to everyone. But not everyone knows the full set of his first and last names. Pablo Diego Jose Francisco de Paula Juan Nepomuceno Crispin Crispiano de la Santisima Trinidad Ruiz and Picasso. There are 93 letters in his first and last name. After all, Picasso is a Spaniard, and in Spain such a magnificent set of names is not at all uncommon.

And in 2008, two boys named North, one Dolphin, Wind and Angel appeared in Moscow. The girls were named Luna and Galavictoria. Years earlier, Salad Lettuce, Air Traffic Controller, Simply a Hero, Yaroslav-Lyutobor, Zarya-Zaryanitsa, Volya, Luna, Viagra, Russia, Cool and Privatization were born...
And there is also BOC rVF 260602 (Biological Object of a Human of the Voronin-Frolov family, born on June 26, 2002...

By the way, when I found this, I remembered how one of my mother’s friends told me that her friends named the girl Doleres and the boy Elvis. The main dad’s name is Ion (Vanya in Russian), and their surname is typically Moldavian, for the life of me I can’t remember. It was in Chisinau three years ago!

Revolutionary names:
Artaka - Artillery Academy
Bestreva - Beria - Guardian of the Revolution
Vaterpezhekosma - Valentina Tereshkova - the first female cosmonaut
Vector - Great communism triumphs
Velior - Great October Revolution
Velira - Great Worker
Veor - Great October Revolution
Vidlen - Lenin's Great Ideas
Vilan - V.I. Lenin and the Academy of Sciences
Vilen - V. I. Lenin
Vilenor - Vladimir Ilyich Lenin - Father of the Revolution
Vilor(a) - V.I. Lenin - organizer of the revolution
Vilord - V.I. Lenin - organizer of the labor movement
Vilorik - V.I. Lenin - liberator of workers and peasants
Vilyur - Vladimir Ilyich loves his Motherland
Vil - V. I. Lenin
Vinun - Vladimir Ilyich will never die
Vist - The Great Historical Power of Labor
Vladilen - Vladimir Ilyich Lenin
Vladlen - Vladimir Lenin
Volen - Will of Lenin
Vors - Voroshilovsky shooter
Gertrude - Heroine of Labor
Dazvsemir - Long live the world revolution
Dazdrasen - Long live the seventh of November
Dazdrasmygda - Long live the bond between city and village
Dazdraperma - Long live the first of May
Dalis - Long live Lenin and Stalin
Division - Lenin's cause lives on
Diner(a) - Child of a new era
Donera - Daughter of a new era
Dotnara - Daughter of the working people
Idlen - Lenin's Ideas
Izaida - Follow Ilyich, baby
Izili - Executor of Ilyich's covenants
Izil - Fulfill Ilyich's commandments
Kid - The Communist Ideal
Kim - Communist Youth International
Krarmia - Red Army
Kukutsapol - Corn - the queen of fields
Lagshmivara - Camp Schmidt in the Arctic
Last - Latvian shooter
Lapanalda - Papanin camp on an ice floe
Ledat - Lev Davidovich Trotsky
Ledrud - Lenin - a friend of children
Lelyud - Lenin loves children
Lenar(a) - Lenin's Army
Lengenmir - Lenin - the genius of the world
Leninid - Lenin's ideas
Leninir - Lenin and the Revolution
Lenior - Lenin and the October Revolution
Lenora - Lenin is our weapon
Ribbon - Leninist Labor Army
Lentrosh - Lenin, Trotsky, Shaumyan
Forest - Lenin, Stalin
Lestak - Lenin, Stalin, communism
Leundezh - Lenin died, but his work lives on
Liszt - Lenin and Stalin
Lorierik - Lenin, October Revolution, industrialization, electrification, radioification and communism
Luigi(a) - Lenin is dead, but the ideas are alive
Lunio - Lenin died, but the ideas remained
Love - Love Lenin
Marlene - Marx, Lenin
Maels - Marx, Engels, Lenin, Stalin
Maenlest - Marx, Engels, Lenin, Stalin
Mezhenda - International Women's Day
Malor - Marx, Engels, Lenin, October Revolution
Münd - International Youth Day
Ninel - Lenin (vice versa and with a soft sign)
Niserkha - Nikita Sergeevich Khrushchev
Odvar - Special Far Eastern Army
Orletos - October Revolution, Lenin, labor is the basis of socialism
Oyushminald (a) - O. Yu. Schmidt on the ice floe
Papir - Party pyramid
Perso(v?)strat - The first Soviet stratospheric balloon
Gender(s) for - Remember Lenin's precepts
Pores - Remember the decision of the congresses
Pofistal - The winner of fascism Joseph Stalin
Ruled - Lenin's Truth
Pridespar - Greetings to the delegates of the party congress
Pyatchet - Five-year plan at four years
Raitiya - District Printing House
Revmark - Revolutionary Marxism
Revmira - Revolutions of the world army (revolution of the world)
Rem - World Revolution
Rome - Revolution and Peace
Roblen - Born to be a Leninist
Rosik - Russian Executive Committee
Ram - Revolution, Engels, Marx
Strong - The Strength of Lenin
Stalen - Stalin, Lenin
Stator - Stalin triumphs
Taklis - Tactics of Lenin and Stalin
Tomik - Marxism and communism celebrate
Tomil - The Triumph of Marx and Lenin
Trick(om) - Three "K" - Komsomol, Comintern, communism
Trolebuzina - Trotsky, Lenin, Bukharin, Zinoviev
Trolen - Trotsky, Lenin
Uryurvkos - Hurray, Yura in space
Fed - Felix Edmundovich Dzerzhinsky (And there was also the FED plant, which made good cameras.)
Chelnaldin(a) - Chelyuskin on an ice floe
Erlen - Era of Lenin
Yuralga - Yuri Alekseevich Gagarin
Yaslenik - I am with Lenin and Kripskaya

Slavic names:
Beloslav - From BEL - white, turn white and SLAV - to glorify.
Berimir - caring for the world.
Berislav is the one who takes glory, who cares about glory.
Berislava - female uniform named Berislav.
Blagoslav - glorifying kindness.
Blagoslava is the female form of the name Blagoslav.
Abbreviated names: Blaga, Blagana, Blagina.
Fornication - dissolute, unlucky.
Bozhidar - gifted by God.
Borimir is a peace fighter, a peacemaker.
Borsch is one of the personified names of the plant world. In literal translation: Borscht is plant tops.
Boyan is a storyteller.
Boyana is the feminine form of the name Boyan.
Bryachislav - from BRYACHA - to rattle and SLAV - to glorify
Historical figure: Bryachislav Izyaslavich - Prince of Polotsk.
Budimir is a peacemaker.
From this name came the surnames: Budilov, Budishchev.
Velimir is a big world.
Velimira is the female form of the name Velimir.
Velimudr - knowledgeable.
Wolf is one of the personified names of the animal world.
From this name came the surname: Volkov.
Raven is one of the personified names of the animal world.
From this name came the surnames: Voronikhin, Voronov.
Vorotislav - returning glory.
Vsemil - beloved by everyone.
Vtorak is the second son in the family.
Godoslav - The name also has a meaning: Godlav. Historical figure: Godoslav is the prince of the Bodriči-Rarrogs.
Goluba is meek.
From this name came the surnames: Golubin, Golubushkin
Gorazd - skillful, capable.
Gremislav - famous.
Daren - gifted.
Darena is the feminine form of the name Daren.
The names also have meaning: Darina, Dara.
Nine is the ninth son in the family.
Ruff -
one of the personified names of the animal world.
From this name came the surname: Ershov.
Lark is one of the personified names of the animal world.
From this name came the surname: Zhavoronkov.
Zhdan is a long-awaited child.
Zhdana is the female form of the name Zhdan.
Zhiznomir - living in the world.
Zhirovit
Zhiroslav
Hare is one of the personified names of the animal world.
Anger is one of the "negative" names.
Sincere - sincere.
The name also has meaning: Iskra.
Iskra is the feminine form of the name Iskren.
Istislav - glorifying the truth.
Exhaustion - languid (possibly associated with difficult childbirth).
Koschey is thin and bony.
Kriv is one of the "negative" names.
Luchezar - a ray of light.
Mal - small, junior.
Malusha is the female form of the name Mal.
Milovan - affectionate, caring.
Milorad is sweet and joyful.
Molchan - taciturn, silent.
Nevzor is one of the “negative” names.
The surname Nevzorov comes from this name.
Nekras is one of the “negative” names.
Nekrasa is the female form of the name Nekras.
Eagle is one of the personified names of the animal world.
Osmoy is the eighth child in the family.
Ostromir
Peredslava
Radiohost - caring about another (guest).
Sbyslava
Nightingale is a personified name for the animal world.
Catfish is the personified name of the animal world.
Stanimir - establisher of peace.
Stanimira is the female form of the name Stanimir.
Stoyan - strong, unbending.
Sudimir
Sudislav
Tverdimir - from TVERD - solid and MIR - peaceful, peace.
Tverdislav - from TVERD - solid and SLAV - to glorify.
Brave - brave.
Caslav - aspiring to glory.
Chaslava is the female form of the name Chaslav.
Chernava - dark-haired, dark-skinned
Pike is the personified name of the animal world.
Yarilo is the sun.

Every pregnant woman begins to come up with names for her child long before his birth, trying to choose the most beautiful names in the world. However, you need to understand that the fate of the baby will depend on the name. If you see a beautiful name on the extensive list, do not rush to name your child. Try saying it out loud a few times and you will learn how the name “sounds.” Find out the meaning of the name, choose several options and think about each one. Perhaps the initial impulse was too hasty. Intuition will definitely tell you the best option for a tiny son or daughter.

Over the past three years, parents around the world have been trying to choose sophisticated names for their children. For example, in the hit parade “The Most fashionable names for boys" for 2012-2014 included many biblical names: Adam, Noah, Daniel, Ethan, Jonah, Raphael. In the rating "Most popular names for girls" for the same period included the following names: Isabella, Sofia, Zoya, Alisa, Milana, Emma, ​​Alina, Amelia and etc.

The most popular names at the end of 2014:

Unusual names for children from loving mothers and fathers

The most beautiful names in the world cannot quench the thirst of parents who want to somehow distinguish their child, to make him unique, at least through the name. As soon as they don’t name newborn babies, wanting to give them sonorous names, not realizing that children have a hard time with such names. For example, when registering babies in the countries of the former “post-Soviet space,” the most unusual names for girls were considered: Tsvitana, Valencia, Shahroza, Kvita, Melisa, Cleopatra . No less were invented for boys interesting names – Krishna, Milan, Aladdin, Christopher, Eden, Odysseus, Nero and etc.

Sometimes parents go even further in their best intentions and call their children double or even triple names, believing that they will someday be included in the category of “The Most famous names world”, when the children grow up, become geniuses and become famous: Zabava-Rowan, Hana-Fani, Tsarina-Almaza, Panna-Milana, Prince-Volodar and etc.

Among Russian children, under the influence of famous Indian, American and Asian TV series, names such as Oscar, Naomi, Zita, Gita, Jennifer, Mirabella, Vanessa and etc.

The most popular names for girls and boys with patriotic overtones

Several cases have been recorded in the Russian Federation when newborn girls were named Russia . Can you imagine how strange it sounds when a child has the most common surname - Russia Ivanova or Russia Grachev. For some reason, parents in Nizhny Tagil named their daughter Privatization . They probably remembered fun historical times.

After the revolution, people named their children patriotically: Pofistal (Victor of fascism ), Perkosrak (First space rocket), Uryurvkos (Hurray, Yura in space!) etc. And these days, not being satisfied with the options from the list of “The most common names for girls and boys,” children are called unusually. For example, naming a girl Viagra , parents explain this not by addiction to a well-known drug, but great love to the VIA Gra group.

After the sensational football matches, the registry offices begin to register babies, perpetuating the names of famous athletes, football coaches, and goalkeepers.

The most unusual names in the world

To read some names, it takes several minutes to pronounce a huge number of letters or decipher an abbreviation puzzle. For example, the most long name has 1478 letters in the world. It’s hard to believe, but the child was actually named that way, combining the names of memorable historical places, names of famous scientists, diplomats and much more. The ranking of the most unusual names in the world includes the following names:

1. American family from New Orleans at the birth of three twin girls named them Mu, Wu and Gu . By the way, Americans, more often than any other nationality in the world, “suffer” from idiocy; calling children is extremely absurd.

2. For a long time in France there was a dynasty that did not have a surname, it was replaced by a set of numbers 1792 . To be completely original, they decided to name their sons by the months of the year. The most popular names for boys in this family were: January 1792, March 1792 and April 1792. By the way, the last of the male family of this dynasty, Mr. March 1791, died in 1904.

3. Everyone knows the artist Pablo Picasso and admires his work. However, few people know that this brilliant artist had unusual name Pablo Diego Jose Francisco de Paula Juan Nepomuceno Crispin Crispiano de la Santisima Trinidad Ruiz and Picasso. Such long and magnificent names were fashionable in Spain in past centuries; some old surnames have been preserved unusual tradition and today.

4. A family from the American city of Chicago named their children Appendicitis, Laryngitis, Tonsillitis, Peritonitis and Meningitis . Maybe the head of the family was a novice doctor and decided to “practice” memorizing professional terms on his own children?

5. In the Indian village of Kandhmala, the parents named the boy “I love potatoes.” It is not known whether the child will become a genius, but he has already glorified his village.

6. In Russia in the last century, names like Revolution, Electrification, Industrialization or even original ones - Lagshmivara (“Schmidt’s Camp in the Arctic”), Kukutsapol (“Corn is the Queen of the Fields”). Then there were the ratings “The most popular female names in Russia” or male names, were not compiled. It's a pity, we could have learned a lot of interesting names.

7. In India, two boys from the same village were named "Hello, Silver Dollar!" and “Hello, Two kilograms of rice!” . By the way, India has long been the leader in the most unusual names for children. Probably the best dreamers and inventors live there.

8. In Hawaii, the owner of a local restaurant decided to give his daughter original name and chose, in his opinion, the most unusual name in the world - Napu-Amo-Hala-Ona-Ona-Aneka-Wehi-Wehi-Ona-Hiwea-Nena-Wawa-Keho-Onka-Kahe-Hea-Leke-Ea-Ona-Ney-Nana-Nia-Keko-Oa-Oga- Wan-Ika-Wanao . The teachers refused to include such a name in the class register, because of this there was a scandal with the parents. By the way, when translated into Russian, this unusual name also sounds long - “Numerous beautiful flowers of the mountains and valleys begin to fill Hawaii in length and breadth with their fragrance.”

And here is a video selection of examples of the most unusual names of our time:

Hi all! I wonder if many married ladies wear engagement/wedding rings?
I probably wore it for the first month. I can’t stand it - it’s kind of yellow and wide. And for me all these attributes mean nothing.
Moreover, I can’t remember if my friends and acquaintances wear these attributes. I never paid attention.

To live well!

Our city is currently hosting an annual trade exhibition, which is easier to call just a fair. By the way. the most comfortable and familiar Russian fair has German roots and comes from Jahr - year and Markt - market, bazaar.
I invite you to take a walk through the German province in the rain, where would we be without it?

This announcement in the children's pavilion made my day_ "Please. Don't forget to pick up the children!"

Athena

We are talking about mother-in-law and sister-in-law. I was very tired of the annoying visits to our dacha without an invitation and staying there for a month or two. It would be nice if we had common points of contact, there was something to talk about or at least some kind of family relationship, but everything is muted there.

The mother-in-law comes to her home, hangs out her towels, plants and digs up trees at her own discretion, brings some fragrant fertilizers, in general everything is “just the way I like it.” You can’t leave a child with her, there’s no trust, because she’s “wonderful” - she can leave a five-year-old child alone at home while she goes off on business, I haven’t heard about hygiene: her hands and nails are always black, she doesn’t wash her hands after using the toilet, all the dishes are done after it in greasy and sticky spots. This is so disgusting girls!

According to the first one, I tried to build a respectful relationship: I invited her into the house, set the table, gave me expensive wine, but in the conversation I heard that the cutlets were a bit dry and that I was still a bitch! And I decided that she and I didn’t need to sit at the same table. Apparently I can’t save my family, no matter how much I want to. I'm not ready for such impudent attacks on my country house.

We live in the city in my apartment: me, my husband, and my 5-year-old daughter. The house was built by my husband. I would like to hear opinions on what I can do in this situation so as not to be upset anymore. I haven’t slept for two nights... I can’t do anything... She’s sitting there at our dacha, and we’re toiling in the stuffy city, and on the weekend my husband suggested (apparently that mommy should stay there) that we go to his friend’s dacha (who he doesn’t call and doesn’t even pick up the phone when his husband calls him).

I am not interested in being a poor relative, especially since I have a good position and earn normal money. I can theoretically rent a dacha in the Moscow region myself, but it’s such a shame that I do everything myself. And I take my child to the sea myself, because he is sorry for the money - there is a village, and now it has been occupied.

Next week, my sister-in-law is sending her children to us... So that they can live there for another month... The house, I tell you, is not made of rubber, and all of us will not fit there even if I get over my disgust towards my mother-in-law's sloppiness...

Fairy, just Fairy

Many letters.
Sasha and Dasha met as students, were friends for 4 years, got married. She said that you don’t need to get married right away, so who would listen ((
The problem was Dasha. More precisely, it’s not a problem, the person just had to be allowed to live independently, and only then build his own family. Her mother has big, big bells and whistles, she crushed Dasha when Sasha introduced us to her, the first impression is a thin, thin sprout that is just crawling out of the ground. She would like to live at least a year without her mother, just alone, but love is carrots, we ran to the registry office.
After the wedding, they united the premarital, bought three rubles in a new building, got pregnant, it’s like live and be happy. After the birth, a paragraph began ((((Sasha from a family with the model “father is the breadwinner, mother is the keeper of the hearth,” and mother’s Dasha, who transferred her own cockroaches to family life daughter, instead of help, a daily lecture that a good wife has her husband’s dirty socks washed on the same day and for her husband there should always be first, second and compote. They inserted Sashka’s brain, he began to actively help Dasha, and his mother-in-law began to come only in his presence, but it was too late,
It ended sadly. When Andryushka was 9 months old, Dashka had a breakdown. During the next scandal, she rushed out of the house in only a robe at 3 a.m. and left. Thanks to her friend, she took her, but she had to call an ambulance, emergency hospitalization in a psychiatric hospital. Dasha stayed in the ICU for almost six months, was discharged, and never returned to her family. She moved to the metropolis, got a job, 2 years later she got married a second time and gave birth to a daughter. She was widowed while pregnant, inherited her husband’s business, and now everything is fine with her. I started communicating with my son as soon as I left the hospital.
Sasha also got married. Nadya, a little older, her first marriage broke up due to her infertility, was purposefully looking for a man with children. She accepted Andryushka as one of her own and adopted her as a common child.
When Sasha was filing for divorce, she said that they should determine the child’s place of residence with you, but again, who would listen ((
Andryushka is happy with everything and calls them both mothers. He is almost 7 and is going to school this year. There is mom Nadya, who is always with him, dad and his adored little brother, dad and mom promise to buy a little sister. And holiday mother Dasha, who takes her with her on weekends and on all sorts of trips across the seas and oceans, plus her beloved little sister too.
The problem is that Dasha decided that she needed to take Andryushka. Sasha and her family live in a small town, she is in the regional center, she wants to donate to good school. Sasha, of course, categorically does not want to give up his son.
People are sane, so far everything is quiet and peaceful, but a scandal is brewing.
The question is - what is best for the child? Leave it in dad's family or give it to mom, wherever more possibilities for education?

Maria Sukhova

Girls, this is a chatty topic)

I have a friend; in December she had a complex, paid operation; she was on sick leave for a long time. I went back to work in April, and after 1.5 months they were sent on unpaid leave. She found new job from 1.07. But apparently it’s difficult to live financially, although she doesn’t complain or ask.

Her parents did not offer her financial help, although they have such an opportunity. She has grandparents, a sister, aunts and uncles and their children (cousins). Everyone lives normally. Although if my friend had asked, they would have helped her. I offered to help her, she thanked her and said that she would probably contact her in July, because... The first salary will be in August.

Moreover, yesterday she met ex-husband and he also proposed to her, knowing about her difficulties (they have a normal relationship). She didn’t take it, she also left it as a last resort. My friend and I chatted about this topic. But this just pretty shining example about this theme, we are not talking about a friend and her family.

Are your family offering you help without your request? Do you yourself offer help to your relatives without their request? In what situations?